We just wrapped our monthly check-in on Substack Live, and we have to tell you, this one hit different. We got real about the three things we refuse to let back in our home, no matter how many birthday parties, school snacks, or well-meaning gifts try to sneak them past the front door.
If you joined us live, thank you. You showed up for your family and for this community, and that means everything.
If you missed it, the replay (paid members have lifetime access, and we will get to that). But first, we want to put into writing what God put on my heart during the live, because some of this is too important to live inside a video that somebody might scroll past.
This is our monthly pattern now. Once a month, we go live.
We catch up with the family, answer your questions, and break down what is actually moving the needle in our home.
April’s focus: The Three Non-Negotiables…
What a Non-Negotiable Actually Means
A non-negotiable is not a preference. It is not a goal.
It is not a thing we try to avoid most of the time. A non-negotiable is a line in the sand.
It is the thing we decided once, together, that we would not compromise on, so our kids never have to wonder where we stand and so we never have to waste another ounce of willpower debating it on a Tuesday afternoon.
We have three of them. Just three.
Not a list of 50 rules that would crush a tired mom and send her straight back to the drive-through out of sheer exhaustion. Three.
Because when you get these three right, everything else starts falling into place on its own. Your grocery cart looks different.
Your skin looks different. Your kids sleep different.
Your home smells different. Your mind clears.
Your pain backs off. Your body starts to remember what it was designed to do.
We did not come up with these. Scripture did.
Research confirmed it. Our family lived it.
Two million families have walked it out with us since 2014. This is not new. It is just not popular, and that is precisely why it works.
“My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.” , Hosea 4:6
Here are the three…
Non-Negotiable #1: Cut White Processed Sugar (and All 60 Aliases)
We treat sugar like a drug in our home because that is what it is. The average American eats nearly triple what the American Heart Association recommends every single day, and most of them have no idea, because sugar goes by over 60 names on ingredient labels.
High fructose corn syrup. Maltodextrin.
Dextrose. Sucrose.
Cane juice. Corn syrup solids.
Aspartame. Sucralose.
Acesulfame potassium. It is hiding in your cereal, your yogurt, your kids’ granola bars, your coffee creamer, your salad dressing, your ketchup, and the “healthy” snacks you thought were a win.
No compromise. No cheat days.
No exceptions. We have zero white sugar in our pantry, and that includes the fake sweeteners that are arguably worse.
Literally the only white sugar we ever get is for DIY sugar scrubs.
Are we extreme? Maybe.
But is it not more extreme that the standard American diet has been linked to cancer, diabetes, obesity, Alzheimer’s, heart disease, infertility, ADHD, anxiety, hormone imbalance, and chronic inflammation? You have to pick which extreme you want to live in.
Here is the part most people miss: the benefit is not five years from now. When you pull sugar out of your home, your body starts responding within hours.
The joint pain quiets down. The afternoon crashes disappear.
The brain fog lifts. The cravings lose their grip.
Your kids stop melting down at 4pm. Your skin changes in days, not decades.
That is why this is Non-Negotiable Number One. It buys you the fastest win of any health change you can make.
“A little leaven leavens the whole lump.” , Galatians 5:9
“I’m grateful to be here, receiving encouragement, recipes, and whole-body transformation. Even after trying times, I trust you and Mama Z. The spiritual aspect completes the system: body, soul, and spirit.”
— Ellen D.
Non-Negotiable #2: Cut Inflammatory Foods (Seed Oils, Conventional Grains, Conventional Dairy)
Sugar is the headline. Inflammatory foods are the silent majority.
Seed oils, conventional grains, conventional dairy, and ultra-processed foods are not fringe ingredients. They are the backbone of the standard American diet, and they are the reason so many Christian families feel tired, bloated, foggy, and inflamed and cannot figure out why.
Chronic inflammation is now recognized as a root driver of heart disease, type 2 diabetes, autoimmune conditions, and even depression. The standard American diet is one of the most pro-inflammatory diets in the world.
You should feel better after eating, not worse. If you feel worse, your body is trying to tell you something, and the food industry is banking on you not listening.
Start with the oils. Seed oils (canola, soybean, corn, sunflower, “vegetable oil”) are in nearly every packaged food and almost every restaurant meal.
Swap them for olive oil, avocado oil, coconut oil, and grass-fed butter, and you have just made one of the biggest anti-inflammatory changes your family can make. The grains and dairy come next.
We are not saying every human on earth must give up dairy. We are saying conventional dairy from stressed cows pumped full of hormones is not the same food your grandmother ate.
Sourcing matters. Quality matters.
And for many people, the only way to hear what their body actually needs is to cut it out long enough to listen.
“So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” , 1 Corinthians 10:31
Non-Negotiable #3: Cut Artificial Fragrances
If sugar is the drug and inflammatory foods are the silent majority, fragrance is the lie no one talks about. One word on a label, “fragrance” or “parfum,” can legally hide over 3,000 undisclosed chemicals.
The FDA confirms it. Manufacturers do not have to tell you what is in there, and most of it has never been tested for long-term human safety.
Fragrance is in your hand soap, your shampoo, your laundry detergent, your dryer sheets, your candles, your plug-ins, your perfume, your cologne, your cleaning products, your deodorant, your baby wipes, and the air freshener in your minivan. It is everywhere.
And it is linked to brain fog, headaches, sneezing, nausea, hormonal disruption, and asthma. Indoor air is 2 to 5 times more polluted than outdoor air, and most of that is coming from products we invited in.
When our family went fragrance-free, life changed overnight. The headaches stopped.
The 3pm slump lifted. The kids stopped coughing.
The whole house felt different. Within a week, your nose recalibrates, and synthetic fragrances start smelling like what they actually are: chemical assault.
That is your body recognizing what does not belong.
“The prudent sees danger and hides himself, but the simple go on and suffer for it.” , Proverbs 27:12
Sugar. Inflammatory foods.
Fragrance. Break up with those three, and you are 80% of the way to the abundant life in your body, without a single supplement, a single protocol, a single purchase, a single guru.
God’s design is already in you. Our job is to stop fighting it.
“Thank you so much for everything you all do, and especially today for the Scriptures. I really needed those today.”
— Mary G.
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The 4:30 AM Holy Spirit download that birthed the three non-negotiables
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Why “everything in moderation” is a Biblical lie (and what the verse actually says)
Christians, pastors, and the hidden spiritual cost of sickness
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“It has truly been amazing for me and my family as we find natural and Biblical ways to improve our health and wellbeing in our home.”
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